When a child falls 50 times learning to walk, he never says to himself, "maybe this isn't for me."
The failure is not your enemy
You must not have failure as an enemy, because in every way you will encounter obstacles, a human being cannot be a failure, because only permanent failure exists in your mind, there will always be things you have achieved. If you feel that way you have simply seen the negative part of your life, if you think about all the wonderful things you have done, you will see that you have done a lot, everything is a matter of valuing yourself. If there are things you haven't accomplished, dare to try again. Who says you can't succeed now?
Failure lasts depending on your reaction, you make it permanent when you allow feelings of sadness, depression and defeat to invade you. If you don't achieve a goal, never call it failure, take it as a single event that starts and ends, from which you can acquire knowledge about how to improve the way to do it, you will know that there was another way to achieve it, besides knowing the failures you had for which you didn't reach it.
People are afraid of failure and undoubtedly it is the friend who will get in the way of you, because he will strengthen your character, always plays to win, but if in that race you get to your side just have him as a partner in the race that drives you to put more passion, more strength, greater intensity, greater speed, fixing your goal. However, if you reach and win the race, just get ready to do better next time, train more, improve your conditions, strengthen your weaknesses and you will see that the next race will be yours. Such are the athletes who are competitive when they do not achieve their goal, review their failures and then dedicate themselves to train, improve their failures and refine their techniques to be prepared to compete again.
The failure is not the end, it's the beginning of something better
You must also be sincere with yourself and ask yourself whether you did all that was necessary to achieve it, whether you were really so focused on reaching your goal, or whether you were unable to move enough, or did you expect things to be done by the work and grace of the Holy Spirit. I know people who complain about not achieving anything in life and I have seen that they are not able to get up from their bed, from their sofa to go out on the street to fight for what they want, but it is easier to say "I am a failure", "I have been unlucky", "everything goes wrong with me", "I am not good for ... And it turns out that there is no inner study of his being and his actions, things happen when you dare to do it, when you are able to leave your fears and sorrows, that despite the pain you are going through you are able to move, but perhaps it is easier for you to blame the "failure and life" of your disinterest, knowing that you have the same or better conditions to achieve everything you want in this universe, it only depends on you, stop blaming others for what happens to you, make yourself responsible for your results. On the other hand, if you've given your all for the whole, take failure as part of success, because it's normal for everyone to live a moment of defeat, but it's in you how long you'll be lamenting and lying on the floor, just get up, go out again to face life and fight for what you dream.
"Failure is part of success when you've done everything to make it happen".
One story that has always struck me because of persistence is that of Thomas Alva Edison who invented the incandescent bulb, it did not come out at first, but made more than a thousand attempts, to the point that a disciple of his asked him why he persisted in building a bulb, if after more than 10000 attempts had not achieved more than failures, Edison responded: are not failures, I have managed to know 10000 ways of how not to make a light bulb**.
Incredibly, he failed 10000 times until he achieved his goal and yet said:
"It wasn't a thousand failed attempts, it was a thousand steps invention"
That is to say, that he took his failures as part of his success, because without having gone through them, he would never have succeeded. It is an example of patience and persistence. Thanks to that, today we enjoy this great invention, another detail that many people don't know is that he didn't have the idea of creating it, but if you want to perfect it, that's why you have to do things a thousand times until you get it right. On the way there are many who give up and are left with the doubt of not knowing if in the next attempt they can achieve what they want.
If you want to know more about this story, please go to the following pages:
https://www.bulbs.com/learning/history.aspx
In the face of failure you must PERSIST
I referred to the story of Thomás Edison for the persistence he had in reaching his goal. You must persevere relentlessly, seeking that power within you that drives you to fight for what you want. Persistence is the strength and energy for any key to success. However, that force born within you is called FAITH IN YOURSELF, in what you do, in what you dream. Then, in the face of failure, faith and persistence. Do not blame the failure or see it as an enemy, visualize it as part of your success to perfect what you want as a goal and the one that drives you to do it better.
If you fail, just ask yourself: Did he give up or do I give up? How important is it for me to achieve my goal?
"Failure wins when you give up"
"The world is full of blessings, it is only in you to be worthy of them"
source:
https://www.guiainfantil.com/articulos/salud/accidentes/mi-hijo-se-cae-mucho-es-normal/
http://resovate.com/2014/01/03/how-to-fail-reflections-on-one-of-my-big-leaps-in-2013/
http://brianhain.com/4-great-quotes-for-living-healthy/
https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/thomas_a_edison_132683