Show me the incident where you were warned for doing something wrong, but you think it wasn't wrong. That'll help me understand your perspective a little better.

As for your questions. I can't speak for them. Keep that in mind. I don't live inside their heads. And in general, life is fair. Doesn't always go our way, but that's only fair. Fairness is balance. If you're having a bad day or dealing with difficult people, the goal is to always reach equilibrium again, not tip the scale fully in the opposite direction.