Some of the things we want are a one-way ticket to a shorter life span, but we may not realize it because they are likely to satisfy us in the short run

I feel like sending this post to my immediate elder brother because that's exactly the consequence of what he is facing now in his marriage. Did I say marriage? It just got dissolved ...so no more marriage... it's been a disaster..it only lasted for 3 years..no similarities, no nothing...

It's now he is realizing everything and wished he could have made a right choice and not being blinded in the first place. Similarities bring about more bonds in relationship but when you both are parrarell lines that can never meet in any point, it's difficult to stick through the ups and downs that comes with marriages