I will cherish my future wife and children, more than anyone on earth. And I will strive for riches, in order to provide for them and myself.
But before family and money, comes God. God is always first. Without God, we'd perish. Without God, family and money are worthless, earthly things, that will fade away.
Put God first, and everything else will come, if you believe in him and trust in him.
"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." (HOLY BIBLE, MATTHEW 6:33)