I think blame is problematic at best, whether directed towards ourselves or others. Why do we need to blame anyone for anything, including ourselves? Life is a learning process and heaping blame on ourselves or others is counterproductive to growth and gets one “stuck”, as you have described.

What you've said here is key, imo:

I don't need the way others run things, I need me my stuff. So everytime things is funny I just show what stuff I'm of genuinely. Trusting my process and giving myself to the true fact of others.