When you visit a strangers house, do you ask "where is the food I want to eat?" without introducing yourself, no you wouldn't. Coming into my discord and immediately asking about how to promote your posts is the same. It's rude and greedy.
You ask for mutual respect. Well respect is earned, and you have not earned mine at all. Also I don't need any lectures from you on how to act.
Try adopting a little humility and manners and perhaps you'll have better results on this platform.