That's why we, men, are encouraged to take care of women like "fragile" or Biblically speaking, as "weaker vessel", which means you are more delicate or sensitive than us. But, one thing that I had read from the "Watch Tower" publication is: "accepting the reality" can help us adjust to a situation whether new or perennial. Another is by telling others what and how we feel because it can help relieve the painful feeling. Writing blogs regarding our pains and emotions are some ways of finding relief for our ourselves. You have several friends here. Thank you for sharing @netswriting.