You said well dear, actually self-love is the ultimate, no one should love you more than yourself learning this method is a pathway to happiness,
When you care for yourself enough you give people the impression of how to treat you, so self-love includes being happy and taking care of yourself the way you should and by so doing people won't take you for granted because firstly you love yourself and you won't tolerate anyone opposing that. For someone to love himself or herself the person must be ready because definitely people must talk,