You just said it all bro, we should do allow ourselves to be pressured into things we don't want or we are not ready for, pressure can make someone choose a wrong part which he or she is not ready for but which he or she accepts because of what people may think or what people were talking about, you are right when you said you might find out that you are alone when you noticed you no longer provide their attraction that brought your partner in the first place, attraction is something that should come naturally not just only what we see or heard