Oh yes you nailed it my dear, actually on my own part I have begin to cut off all the "legs"that has been holding me down, oh yeah you had me I'm talking about friends, let me have got myself into some mess that would have brought me a little closer to my success but I end up messing it up just because of friends and recently I have just decided to cut them off even without their knowledge, I know it's not going to be an easy one doing things without your friends you normally do with all the time but trust me that's a good way to go and am beginning to see changes little by little, seriously cutting of the "legs" as you said,is a good way to go if it's going to put you in problem or set you back