True, losing humanity is more disastrous then money. It hurts when so called good friends behave in that manner, I feel it was an act of cowardness. May be she thought she could not return me back the money and hence she chose to deal with it in this unpleasant manner. And you are right, God has graced me with many blessings to overlook these kind of situation, but if I do not learn from this then I would be foolish, isn't it?