Comparing yourself to others.

Hello friends, I hope you are doing well. Welcome to my new post. Our creator has created our lives in such a way that we can get to know each other. We can keep each other company and live in a good environment. There are many people in our society who have achieved their success and have reached their goals. They may have worked hard for this. On the other hand, there are many people who may not have had to work that hard. Their lives are much easier and they have moved towards their goals very easily.

We may have many desires to reach that goal but we cannot reach it. For this, we have various obstacles that may later turn us away from that goal. If someone tries to compare me with other people or if I try to compare myself with other people, then of course it will never be valid. Because it depends a lot on the economic status of the two of us, social status, family status, time and many more things.

I have almost faced the problem of making such comparisons several times. But it is true that I cannot compare myself with people that much. I think I am fine as I am. I may be on the right track in my context. The people around me may have struggled a lot to reach their goals. Many others have reached them very easily. But in my case, I think this is a completely personal matter. I still don't know if I have reached my goals. Especially in my life and studies, I have faced this comparison the most. Earlier, I used to compare myself with people in terms of studies. Later, I realized that actually there is no use in comparing.

My friends may have got a good environment, good money, due to which they are so good in studies today. They have made their environment very soft, but in my case, it is quite the opposite. Due to pressure in my family, financial pressure, I may not be able to maintain my studies well yet. I wanted to study in a private university but my family did not allow me to do this. So maybe I used to compare myself to other people, due to these conditions of mine, I could not study well yet.

In my opinion, sometimes comparisons can be made. If we compare all the time then of course it is harmful for us because it reduces our self-confidence. Then you will feel that only you are right and the whole world is in the wrong situation. And this situation can bring many terrible problems in your life. Then you will only compare and will not be able to develop yourself by working hard. I hope you like our post, thank you all.

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