I have tried to get her help, when she was 17 I did what is called a Murphy Act on her and she had to go to a rehab, court ordered. She did good until 5 years ago, she is now 40. I have had her Baker Acted several times and the last time they would not do it. She will not willingly go. She is not in the right mind anymore, and she does not look like she used to look, but I still love her and wish there was something that I could do, worse feeling in the world is to watch someone you love..... I cannot write the rest, I hope you understand what I was going to say.