During the lunch break yesterday, I accompanied my parents and my one-and-a-half year old child back to my hometown to pay a New year's visit to my third uncle. On my way home after dinner, I took my baby all the way away and fell down because of the wet road. When I fell down, I raised the child with one arm urgently. He threw himself on the ground, causing mud all over her body and injuries to his palms, arms and knees. After she fell, she ran with a sharp pain, and asked the child nervously if she was hurt. When I saw my child laughing and saying "poop" (which meant that my clothes were dirty, I finally let go of a hanging heart). I believe that all mothers will no doubt protect their children in times of danger, because the children are not easy to come by. The wrestling brought my mind back to the memory of the past. Indeed, I have endured many physical and psychological hardships since I became pregnant.
During pregnancy, the body is more or less unwell, and every month the heavy body drags in line with other pregnant women in MCH (I guess it coincides with the opening of the two-child policy, and many people are in a rush to have children. There are so many pregnant women in the hospital that it takes a long time to line up for each project, but the husband is a bit far away from work and seems to have only two examinations with me. Each examination is like an exam, and it has to be under intense mental pressure. Hold your breath before you are told the result, and feel kind and relaxed every time you hear something like "the fetus is normal". However, I didn't get it all right during pregnancy, and there were a few episodes, such as catching a cold during pregnancy and not taking hormone drugs; For example, the results of the second trimester examination showed hypothyroidism and rushed to Huaxi Hospital to prescribe medicine. Fortunately, the thyroid function returned to normal under the action of the drug; for example, in the late pregnancy examination, the diagnosis was thrombocytopenia and amniotic fluid decline. At the doctor's suggestion, the amniotic fluid returned to normal for a period of time, but the platelet index did not increase. Too low a platelet index can easily lead to "massive bleeding" during childbirth. Plus, I heard my mother had "massive bleeding" symptoms during childbirth, resulting in the death of my brother, who had not yet met. Even my mother passed out. I lost bags of blood to save my life, so I fell into a whirlpool of fear.
Because of the low platelets, I chose to give birth at a county general hospital with a blood department. Instead of setting up their own maternal and child health care centers, they are muddled with the admission procedures and the choice of attending doctors (it was only later heard that they were interns; after lunch, they were pushed into the delivery room alone). There was no one in the delivery room but two nurses playing with my cell phone. I was alone in bed, and my husband was on his way back from work and fell into the abyss of fear. I spent more than a dozen hours in the delivery room. No one asked, and then a pregnant woman came in for about a dozen minutes noisy to go to a cesarean section, and then the delivery room returned to its stillness. It suffered a double blow of physical pain and psychological pain for more than ten hours, and it was afraid of the child's anoxia and asphyxiation. Then compromise the choice of smooth conversion, fortunately, the mother and daughter peace.
After the moon, because the mother tired old disease recurred, father and husband to work, only the new mother I take care of the children alone. Because of experience, I do not know how much children wear or cover the number of suitable, Every day, they worry about not being able to take care of their children. As a result, the child was hospitalized with pneumonia in more than 50 days, but not long after she was discharged from the hospital, her mother unfortunately fell into the well head of the sewers. It was really a "house leak and a rainy night's rain." the mother was sick in bed, and her husband and father went to work. My parents-in-law did not give a helping hand because she hated my little daughter. I shouldered the burden of my family (taking care of the mother and the baby, taking care of the housework.) A man held a child in his left hand, carried a dozen heavy objects in his right hand, and basically did not rest during the day. In the evening, I was afraid to sleep because my child was kicked and was not fully recovered after the cesarean section. I felt tired and tired. During this period of time, my husband was always in a depressed mood because of the noise in his life. In retrospect, it was the lowest point in my life. As time went on, my mother got better and shared the burden with me. After my maternity leave was over, I went back to work and at first had some discomfort. I feel isolated from the world for a long time, and as ignorant as a new person, with the concern of the leaders and colleagues into the big group. Perhaps it is to re-contact with society, their own horizons and minds are also broadened, no longer entangled in family chores, Gradually get rid of depression and get on track.
With so much talk, I suddenly want to share some personal experiences with you, hoping that men will be more considerate and respectful of their wives, because motherhood is not easy, it is a physical and psychological nirvana rebirth.
（昨日午休期间陪着父母和一岁半的孩子回老家给三叔拜年，饭后回家的途中抱着小宝一路狂走，结果由于路面湿漉漉的而摔倒了。摔倒之时紧急地用一只手臂把孩子举高，而自己却全身扑在地面，导致全身都是泥浆而且手掌、手臂及膝盖受伤。摔倒之后忍着剧痛跑起来，一脸紧张地询问孩子是否受伤，见孩子笑呵呵地说着“粑粑”（意思大概是说我衣服很脏），一颗悬着的心总算是放下了。相信所有母亲在面临危险的时刻，毫无疑问地都会保护自己的孩子，因为孩子来之不易，是母亲经历千辛万苦才生下来的。这次摔跤将我的思绪带回到过去的记忆之中。的确，从怀孕至现在我也是承受过许多生理和心理的磨难。
在怀孕期间身体或多或少有些不适，每个月拖着笨重的身子还要跟其他孕妇们在妇幼保健院里排队检查，（我想估计是恰逢二胎政策开放，许多人赶着热潮儿生孩子，导致医院里孕妇格外多，每个项目检查排队都需要很长时间），然而丈夫工作地点有点远，貌似只有两次陪我一起检查。每一次检查就像一次考试，必须承受强大的精神压力，在被告诉结果之前都要屏住呼吸，每次听到“胎儿很正常”之类的话语时倍感亲切与轻松。然而我在孕期并非一切顺利，还有一些小插曲，比如孕期感冒了，不能使用激素药；比如孕中期检查结果显示甲状腺功能减退，急急忙忙去华西医院挂号开药，幸好在药物的作用下甲状腺功能恢复正常；又比如孕后期检查诊断为血小板减少和羊水减少，在医生的建议下食疗一段时间后，羊水恢复正常，然而血小板指数一直未提升。在医生一直强调升血小板指数关系到凝血机制，对产妇生产时相当重要，血小板指数过低容易导致生产时“大出血”而亡。加之，听说我母亲在生产中曾经也出现过“大出血”症状，导致尚未谋面的弟弟丢掉了性命，就连母亲也晕死过去，输了好几袋血才最终挽回一条命，因此我深深地陷入了恐惧的漩涡之中。
因为血小板低的缘故，我选择了在设有血液科的县级综合医院待产，而不是自己建立孕期档案的妇幼保健院。稀里糊涂办理入院手续与选择主治医生（后来才听说是个实习医生），午饭后独自被推进分娩室，分娩室除了俩护士在玩手机外没有其他人，我一个人孤孤单单地躺在床上，加之丈夫此时还在从工作岗位上回来的路上，顿时坠入恐惧的深渊。在分娩室待了十多个小时，无人过问，后来进来了一个孕妇待了大概十多分钟吵闹着要去剖腹，之后分娩室又恢复了死寂。在生理上遭受了十多个小时的疼痛和心理的双重打击下，又害怕孩子缺氧窒息，而后妥协选择顺转剖，所幸最终母女平安。
出月子后，因为母亲劳累旧疾复发，父亲和丈夫上班，只有初为人母的我独自带小孩。由于经验困乏，也不知小孩到底穿多少或盖多少合适，每天都担忧照顾不好小孩。结果小孩在五十多天时就患上小儿肺炎住院，然出院不久后母亲又不幸摔入下水道井口，真是“屋漏偏逢连夜雨”。母亲卧病在床，丈夫和父亲上班，公婆因嫌弃我家小女而不施以援手，我担负起家庭重担（照顾母亲和婴儿，打理家务）。一个人左手抱着小孩，右手提着十几的重物，白天基本没休息过，晚上担心孩子踢被也不敢沉睡，加之原本剖腹产之后身体还没有完全恢复，倍感劳累。这段时间又总和丈夫总是因为生活琐事吵闹，心情郁闷，现在回想起来简直是我人生中的低谷。随着时间推移，母亲也渐渐好转起来，又与我一同分担重任。转眼产假
啰啰嗦嗦这么多，是突然想和大家分享一些亲身经历，希望男人们要更加体贴与尊重自己的妻子。因为做母亲真的不容易，是在生理和心理上涅槃重生。
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