Yes and problem is i am usually overthinking about what ppl say and that lead me to do something unnecessary or just think about it for hours. Wasted time and effort and probably money.

Last time i spent big money buying something just because i followed what a few people said even though i know that it is not necessary yet for me to have it, and now it is left unused
Now i learning to like what you said, finding the middle ground between ignoring and pay attention to what ppl say