In life we will definitely have a problem. There can be no one human being in this world is free of problems. Thus, the existence of the problem indicates that we are still alive and still in this world.
When we face problems, we often feel sad, confused until the depression. In fact, not uncommon to those who feel like to run away from the problem and does not want to confront the problem.This certainly is not the right attitude to deal with the problem. Furthermore, the attitude of the problem indicates that we are not adults for fear of facing the problem.
Therefore, should we begin to change the mind set of our current problem in front of us. Should we see a problem as the event forged themselves into more adult.
Remember the purpose of awalmu, why do you want to be more mature. Adults not just things of the age, but rather the attitude you face life with every issue. You should be able to be grown so that you can be more self-sufficient and no longer rely on others to complete everything. Not forever you there in comfort zone that you currently have. Then, you have to prepare yourself when you forced to get out of the comfort of yours today.Right intention yourself to become more mature. This will greatly help you to face the future, lest you become a man who is more mature and hardiness. With strong intent, you will be able to keep adult right away from day to day, regardless of any issues you encounter.Dare to take a decision is the next step to become more mature in dealing with the problem. If you rely on others to make decisions for your life, now take control. Dare do you yourself took the decision to all the problems of life that you have. However, you are the one who lived life then you should have a share in it.
When you think of a solution of the problem, don't just think about to finish it for the current course. Think of the impact of the decisions that you make in the long run. Take a look at the impact to your life in the future, the lives of others, to risk what might emerge from the stance you take.In addition you find a solution to resolve the problem, you also should take a lesson from the problems that arise. Understand why the problem can arise in your life. You understand the cause, you could learn from him not to repeat the same mistakes again. However, a good man is he who learns from mistakes to not repeat it again.
