There are times when we feel we are doing the right thing but I know in a way we are indirectly hurting those who are dear to us.
There was once a time when it felt like all things were coming in place and because of one person's little mistake everything just comes crumbling down.
I wish there could be a way to stop in dispute in marriages or relationship, is it really possible? I don't know, it can only be by Gods grace, there are some factors that causes this dispute, a lot to say actually.
In my country it is said that a relationship without dispute is not a relationship, but I don't want to believe that, cause I know of a couple that truly understand themselves, though someone once said you can't compare relationships, well I don't know about that because I beg to differ.
One time at a couples meeting they had asked this couples if they do fight or quarrel they said "No" and I was shocked and I wished for the type of relationship for my own home and some other that I knew were going through some rough patches.
Some things that causes Dispute in relationships
Tolerance: there are people who get married or go into relationships with fully know who the kind of person their partner is, I feel this should be put into consideration as it will really help a lot of homes to flourish.
I believe that when a couple truly understands each other they should be able to tolerate whatever comes their way no matter what it is about.
Trust: There should be complete trust between couples, because without this the relationship would be rubbish , they won't have peace at all in the relationship.they would so much misunderstand themselves sometimes to the point of separating.
So I think relationship can be without dispute if the both parties truly take time to understand themselves and couples in relationship shouldn't rush to leave with each other, but they should take time to fully understand each so as to avoid issues in the future.
But I think this can be fixed when they have better understanding of themselves and just like how those couples in church do sort out their difference in a calm way, I feel this should be applied to all relationship and marriages too
A lot of things happens that makes a relationship very difficult, especially for both partners.
Also the best way to overcome disputes in marriages and relationships is to look for the best way to settle differences.
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