I have a couple of online trans friends, though nobody considered 'non-binary'.

I met some peeps for dinner the other day, one was trans m-to-f. It was so fucking difficult. I 'mis-gendered' at least 3 or 4 times and awkwardly corrected myself, and right at the end when saying bye I automatically said 'Nice to meet you man'.

What a send off.

I genuinely tried, never realised it would be so difficult lol. Extrapolate that to the 700 genders we have now and I can just announce now that I'm a racist nazi and be done with it. Easier.

As for the tips... 20%?? I thought tips were meant to be like 3-5% or something sane. I guess they do run on expensive electricity.