Sounds very very wholesome to me! I mean, who on earth does a party at one of their family member's home, while they're still there! That's a demonstration of love and respect if nothing else.

The 'God Help Me' shows she already has suitable limits and set boundaries. Having 20-30 people shows a pretty healthy number of friends + their friends, good social circles.

And the fact they were down to 10 in time, and only 30 minutes or so over? Very nice! I never had such luxuries as this; never had the friends, the family bond, the money, or the will. In fact come to think of it, I've never hosted a party before!

Lossserrrr (to myself).

But yeah, from this little context sounds like this granddaughter is turning out to be a fine & respectable woman (although the posters do have me raising my eyebrows (To be fair, I was hooked on eminem when I was like 10, which if you've read the lyrics would be quite scary in hindsight!)