We all have our flaws. Some of which are visible, some are kept away till a certain situation triggers it, some we do not know we possess until the second party points it out and brings it our awareness. Can every flaw be fixed irrespective of its kind? For me, I would say yes but I would still love to know what y’all think.
Some flaws leave scars and pains to the carrier and sometimes to certain victims. Every relationship is not perfect, it takes the two parties to make it work. There might be naggings, complaints, quarrels, fights but like someone said to me yesterday “If you genuinely love each other, you will look beyond each other flaws and work together to solve it rather”.
Honesty is very important in a relationship. At least to me, it is. Keeping a secret away from me for too long doesn’t end up well. And if I find out myself, unknowingly he/she begins to create a room for doubt. Yet, like I said “If you genuinely love someone, you will look beyond their flaws and help them solve it for them be a better person". Not everyone understands the human mind and most times, humans judge and make decisions from one angle, one perspective. Likewise, it’s difficult for someone to swallow your shit and take you for who you are, teach, train and hope that you will become better than the way you were.
Yes, sometimes those who take the shit, are looked at as fools for they are patient and willing to stand by you still the flaw or problem is fixed or handled the best way possible. Yet they need a certain assurance and attitude to be certain that you are willing to fix those flaws that seem to be causing a havoc in the relationship. One wrong move might send a different message even though you mean no harm. We are not perfect, but if you have decided to be perfect or make things better try not to make things harder for the other party. For you do not know what he/she is dealing with emotionally just to be here for you.
Yes, you call them sacrifices also. It sounds crazy when I listen to stories of how Ladies are battered in relationship and they still stay back. Guess why? They endure for the sake of love true, even though I still think that’s crazy but they also believe that someday the man In question would change. Yea, I know but that’s what a genuine love is capable of doing just to endure the pain because they wish to be with this person forever and believe that he will change.
My hands wishes to type out more but I will put a halt to this today, I do hope to come around again…. It’s been a while. Thank you all for reading
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