I sit in the some room, on the same couch, when writing this post. But despite the stuff is the same, everything is different. Instead of happiness, I feel sadness inside me. I can't focus on work, books or even stupid movies. Positive music play in background, to cheer me up and motivate to do anything. And it's just third day after she left. Fortunately it's only for Easter break.
I thought it's good idea. I'll have more time to focus on my blog, hobby and I'd stay longer in work, just in case if my boss will start to figure out that I don't love it. So much time to read and exercise, and do bunch of things I wanted to do, but didn't have time. Problem is, I even didn't start with my list. Instead, more beer found road to my fridge and I watched more stupid comedies and YouTube videos than ever. I was going to do it tonight as well, but I thought it's not right. I need to be strong, emotionally stable as future dad. Be like a man, not like a lost child.
I didn't plan to write post about it, as I didn't see it coming. When we started dating, we lived in two different countries and still manage to survive. So two weeks should be nothing. But it's really something. And it's good. Really. I can understand better what I missed most and also what I loved most in her. Weird point is, I don't feel any relief. You know, relief that for this two weeks you can do something in your way. No compromise, just your opinion matter. Not my case. Which tells me how good relationship we've got, and all this talks we had and have, make a difference. My advise, if you don't talk about your feeling or stuff that annoy you, you'd better start. It can really clear the atmosphere and help to better understand each other.
OK, so this post supposed to be about travels when you pregnant and routine in life. As I don't want to bore you too much, I'll just cover travel part this time.
So, I'll talk about not obvious things. At least, not obvious for me.
OK, so limitations are in first and third trimester. And driving or land traveling really depend on woman well-being. In our case, sitting for more than one hour is tiring. My fiancee gets abdominal cramps and she start to feel sick. Not always, but in most cases. So we tried to avoid long journeys. Which comes us to second limitation.
As I said, my fiancee get back to her parents for Easter break. As they live 1000 miles away, we thought to take a flight, as usual. NO WAY. Not in first trimester. First and biggest problem doctor point to us, is that during this period of time, all the organs are created. So big pressure changes during flight, can really cause problems. Small digression. You may think we over react as it's our first child. But I thought about it, and if silicon breast can explode during flight, I'm not going to take a risk. It's not like, let's try and we'll see what happen. Did you imagine that? Good, now you now why flying in third trimester is not wise ;) Back to the topic. Second thing. Do you know, which profession is checked for radiation on regular basis? That's right. Pilots. Why? Cause during each flight they, and you are exposed to radiation. I know, probably it's nothing, otherwise authorities will tell us, right? (you can find more here: http://www.traveller.com.au/flight-risk-how-much-radiation-do-planes-expose-you-to-1a54m) But I'm not going to risk. In the end, we decided to take a bus. It's more convenient than a car, and overall it's cheaper.
This is how I end up being a lone for next two weeks (or maybe month). Sorry for delay in blogging. I hope, you enjoyed this post anyway. Please leave some comments below, so I can try to adjust my writing.
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