Heyy... Times have changed man... you don't really need a family! You don't need to even marry and if your married you don't need to have children!

I don't want family, yes my parents took care of me, that's all there but it does not mean I want to bring another life into this world!

First... I don't know if those parents are legitimate parents. Many children are abandoned because you know... people have physical relationship without protection.

Obviously sex education is a must for adolescents and all others!

Second... society should not pressure us for marriage yaar... then like have kid. THen have two kids...

Do you know you don't need to give birth to become parents?

Come adopt kids from orphanages... too many there in India. They mostly abandoned because they born out of bedlock or by mistake because they had their baby making act without intending too!

And being a parent is no joke ofcourse... it's hard work and no one is perfect, when we start off, we are all naive... we need to be mentally prepared as well.

Just ask your favorite AI search engine(I ask perplexity) - about Anti-natalist.

These people and I am one of them believe that bringing another creature in this world is not nice because the world is not nice kind!

Ask me - I suffered all my life in this world - from school , home... been a loser, loner, been isolated, criticized, demeaned... I suffered all my life and still continue to...

School is not easy for all...some of us don't fit in... we get scared, we feel like social misfits, we get ragged...we do badly in school, don't have friends, don't score marks... and have mental health issues due to stress, anxiety, inferiority complex, fear of all kinds of things etc...

I think its wrong to punish another person by making them suffer coming into this world and I come from a priviledged background so can't say for others who are from poor families.

So, I still say its a personal choice but I again repeat humans have free will, and they don't need to marry or have kids ... they can adopt, be by themselves, as long as they can live happy and full filling lives.

I feel guilty right now for being born and being burden to family, how many will be feeling like me?

Sucks man... And now there is environmental degradation... pollution ... climate change etc... pressures... water shortages... and we humans live bad quality life and you want another one to suffer the same??

Its cruel.

Anyway... Still, I do respect people's personal choice but yes, let's be responsible parents, give birth only when we really are ready to become parents - financially, emotionally, temperamentally etc.

Our purpose in life should not be limited due to family commitments, kids as well.

I maybe harsh, but I get angry when I hear others say have kids, get married... being a happy, free human being living to our best potential, being our best selves and living life meaningfully matters!

Anyway... as usual, I am negative but through negative only photos are developed in olden days... its important to see through reality and tell it out as it is and I will, because I can!

Anyway !LUV and peace...