I will share some of my experiences...rather insights. I always have made bad decisions, not wrong per say but bad. It's because I am generally anxious, afraid to do something out of my confort zone, and basically was cowardly, and in my shell, besides over protection.

Result is losing out on doing things I should have, even though it is tough, risky and all that.

But recently I took decisions which turned out to be good. I was totally in chaus... angry, frustrated but I slept on it and it made me get resolve to take help kind.

Like in this case it was relating to my Dad... his heart, I saw it was all blocked but he don't want surgery kind. I talked to his brother who guided me and my Dad decided for surgery - heart surgery. It's hard but only way out for better quality life.

It's much harder than I can write here... My uncle, guide me, motivated me and came with me with the surgeon and got needed details on what the surgery involves.

My decision to sleep off and contact my Dad's brother who is his well wisher turned out to be right one, which led to ripple effects.

Else I would have left the matter and let Dad be the way he is, and that would have him pass off, maybe in a year with pain, suffering. But that scenario is changed, as surgery though has risk, atleast it would give him a chance to have a new lease of life, where he will have good blood flow and do more things in life kind.

Many times, I do things without thinking, it just happens, some such thing happened last year. I let something happen because I became open to it. There I made no decision, it was more like, my sub conscious mind and self awareness knew its the right thing kind, even though its controversial, it did me a lot of good.

Again it's because my mind was free from fear, self doubth and I trusted my wisdom, and I turned out to be right kind.

So, sometimes, you don't make a decision, in things like say you know that person is for you because you already know many aspects of the person, and you added things up quickly suddenly and it got digested and your ready kind to take the leap!

So, my advice is know the subject matter before making decision. Let, chaus happen inside. Sleep on it, and sub consious mind would have worked out an answer or give you a direction to pursue...

Don't rush, be confident on what your doing. I reached that stage where I knew I was doing the right thing... that time I had no resistance, I was taken by a wave and commited to it.

Even then your decisions maybe wrong, you may have miscalculated, misunderstood etc...but I suppose you take the risk!

!ALIVE

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