Mother's day is a day set aside to honour and celebrate the selfless love, the unwavering dedication and the unrelenting support of our mothers. But my concern is, why should this celebration be limited to just one day in a year? Shouldn't everyday be mother's day?
Reflecting on the impact my mother made in my life, I am reminded of the countless ways she shaped me into becoming the kind of person I am today. From the moment I was born, she was like my rock, my confidante and a light to my path.
I imagine myself in her stomach, kicking her endlessly with my twin. Probably she had swollen legs and was always tired. I imagine her taking care of my elder brother, and managing the family, too. I imagine her preparing food, washing clothes or doing some other house chores. I imagine her walking along the road with a protuding tummy. I imagine her in labour, holding back the pains and pushing me out first, then my twin. I imagine her enduring the pain of breastfeeding. I imagine her taking care of my elder brother, while watching over us, too. I imagine her cleaning us up after we might have soiled our diapers. And these, she did happily. Even in her tiredness, she still found a way to smile, to make us - her children, happy.
Mothers like mine are not just limited to biological relationships. There are countless women who have mothered through adoption, foster care, through mentorship or even through their little acts of kindness.
These are women who have opened up their hearts and their homes to those in need of love, care, affection, giving them a sense of belonging.
And somehow, mothers are often underappreciated. They are the unsung heroes of our societies. Always working behind the scene to keep the families, the communities and the society thriving. Have you noticed that when a child goes the wrong way, the mother is to be blamed?
So, shouldn't we be honouring and thanking them for their dedication and for all they do everyday? Shouldn't we recognize their sacrifices, their love and the lives which they have touched?
Just imagine a world where mothers are celebrated everyday. A world where children grow up being appreciative of their mothers' love and support. Imagine a world where mothers feel heard, seen and cherished.
Everyday should be Mother's day because mothers are the backbone of the society. They are like the roots supporting the tree to grow well and flourish. They are the ones who keep families together, who provide comfort and solace in times of need. They are the ones who selflessly put others first before themselves.
Everyday should be mother's day because, mothers deserve our gratitude. They deserve to feel loved everyday and appreciated, and valued.
We can show them appreciation through our little acts of kindness, our thoughtful gestures and our expressions of gratitude.
And to all mothers out there - biological, foster, adoptive, I celebrate you. I celebrate your love, support and guidance to the society at large.
Mothers deserve to be cherished every day of the year.
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