-"Hey Sam"
-"Yeah wassup"
-"What are you doing?"
-"Nothing just lying here, surfing the internet"
-"Since when?"
-"Umm, not sure, maybe since morning I guess, why do you ask?"
-"Don't you have anywhere to go, or something important to do, or don't you have friends?"
-"I have friends, why do you keep interrogating me, is there something wrong?"
-"So what you are telling me now is, you prefer lying down all day, to going out, having fun, and hanging out with friends, or even attending parties?"
-"Is there any point to those, i don't care about all that, and yes I prefer lying here, enjoying my dark room, and when I need to I would go out, that's if I feel like"
-" You see, this is why I keep getting into an argument with you, you don't know what hanging out with friends, or even making new ones can do to you"
"It gives you connection, and when you need help you can
easily get one, or two, but instead you choose to stay.
Indoors all day, doing nothing, just being an introverted
guy, it's bad"
-"So what you are telling me now is, being an introvert is a bad thing?"
-"Yes it is, and don't ask me why"
-"Ohhh I certainly won't ask you why, but tell you that's wrong to say, being an introvert is not bad at all, because I don't go out doesn't mean I can't, I just prefer staying alone"
"I go out sometimes, when I feel like"
"So don't see me like a freak or anything"
"And please leave me alone for now, bye"
ALONE
Hello everyone, I'm here again with another topic I feel I should talk about, it's a topic about introverts, I'm actually a guy who likes to be alone, I find peace in that.
It doesn't mean I don't go out or have friends, but I just prefer being alone, don't judge me for that --LOL.
We live in a world where being an introvert is seen as something bad, but personally, I feel it's not, it's just a trait in some of us, as we find strength in it.
I get overly sensitive to noise, and I hate it a lot, also I'm not a fan of long chats, I easily get tired of them, but the funniest thing is, I'm a good listener, as long as I'm enjoying the chat, but chatting for too long is what I don't like.
I also won't ignore the fact that it made me a shy person, but I still don't see it as something bad, since it gives me time to think.
The society labels us as too quiet or unfriendly, but we are not, if you get to know us better, you would clearly see, some of us are friendly. I can't speak for all of us since I don't know about others, but I personally I'm a friendly guy, who likes being alone --LOL.
YET COMPLETE
Also being an introvert has its advantages:
If you look closely, our creativity is out of this world, and we are also deep thinkers, as we have enough time to do so.
We are good listeners, we are someone you can tell your problems to and feel safe doing so, Some of us might be shy, but like I said earlier, if you get to know us, you would see we are not that bad like you think we are
We are independent, in every aspect I mean, it doesn't mean we won't accept help from anyone, but if there is no help we do it ourselves and manage to overcome any challenge we are facing.
Also, we have a strong focus...
Even though we have all these challenges, we still face some troubles in our society today.
We get nervous in open spaces or when there are lots of people in a particular area. We suddenly feel the urge to be alone.
We also get misunderstood by friends or other people, they only see us as unfriendly, since we are not really good with words, or sometimes don't know what to say about some particular things, and say the wrong thing...
But even with all these hurdles, it doesn't mean we are that bad, we just don't see the point in partying all the time, going out with friends, or having long chats and so on.
We just prefer being alone, doing what we like without disturbance, and enjoying our alone time.
All I've been trying to say since is, being an introvert is not a bad thing, and it gives us strength, or let me just say we find energy/peace in being alone.
WE CREATE A BALANCE IN THE SOCIETY
Guys this is the end of my post and i hope you enjoyed it, see you in the next one, and thanks for reading.