What is it like when you are raised with too many restrictions and are always told to grow like this or that and later they are complaining about the outcome even after listening to their every instructions? You were told to study, behave well, mix with the good ones, and be self-dependent, and now all of a sudden, they are making complaints over a lacking that can't be synced with any of the requirements they had imposed.
Red signal; everyone here is waiting patiently for the train to pass. Who would dare to come in its way and stop that in order to cross first? No one, the train won't stop; it will take away everything on its way. Everyone on this part is waiting; it's the rule; all the vehicles are meant to abide by that signal; they can't go out of it. But for the train? With different rulesets, it won't stop except for its destination. Now if we go to the car driver and make complaints, why aren't you like that train driver? Why are you waiting here instead of going non-stop to your destination like that train? Will it be logical? This is a car; it has different rulesets; now one thing about the train being superior to the car doesn't mean the car should adapt to that too, nor should one complain about that as it's completely illogical.
I was never on the track of a train; I was taught to be on this part, where we gotta stop and wait in case we had to; we were never reckless as it brings lots of demerits too. All of a sudden, hearing something like that is kinda frustrating. Why did they guide me like that previously? They should have let me be reckless; I guess that would have been better. In the past, they gave examples of the reckless ones, how they are a disgrace to society, and how they are mostly hated for their deeds. Now that something is arguably superior in them, we are making an unhealthy comparison. That's not fair, not fair at all. I know they will regret it later if I am willing to adapt to those changes as it brings many other consequences as well.
Whatever, we can't make everyone happy and satisfied at the same time in every aspect, but when the misunderstanding comes from your near ones in spite of listening to them always is kinda heart-breaking. No worries, time fixes everything; these are also the lessons in our life to live with.