Marriage is a life time commitment, is not done in a rush. It should done according to the direction of the Holy spirit, having a good woman that possess wisdom, good judgement comes from God, we can't get it ourselves that why on Proverbs 19 vs 14 assures us that a wise woman comes from God.
Having such in one's life is a blessing. If one truly desires of this but doesn't go ahead to seek from the Lord then the person is taking a high risk. For a man it is the will of God that he settles down with a prudent wife. And for a woman it is God's will as well that she settles down with a prudent husband. Looking out for looks or appearance would not do us much good.
Having a prudent wife is am awesome blessing, that why seeking God about it is of utmost important. Not involving God is taking a huge risk and is only God who knows the heart of a man. God is a God of principles and where His are not obeyed , when challenges steps in the fellow can not overcome such challenges.
Having a life partner is a spiritual exercise, that need to properly guided by the word of God and also by spiritual leader too , marriage is that medium of have a partnership , that's why the both partners need to belong to the same religion. Also patient as bibe say is a virtual without patient it will be hard for one to meet her life partner
