Most times we get busy, as a matter of fact we're all busy that we tend to forget each other. We ignore friends at times though not on purpose cause of our busy and tight schedule. Our friends on the other hand may remember us, but are prolly waiting for who would do the calling first. We feel they should be the one to do the calling or texting first before we do so, but who made these rules? Is it written anywhere that a guy should call or text first? That a particular person should always do it first ?
It's true we are all busy with the hustles of life, everyone wakes up each day to go about their different life activities but once a friend crosses your mind CHECK UP ON HIM/HER. The mind is actually so strong and powerful that you may not even know why you remembered that particular person at the moment, the least you can do is place a call or send a text to know what's up with them. Same goes to your family members and relations, you shouldn't call only when you need something. It's really not a good habit and you shouldn't be known with only calling for help, you can as well learn to say HI sometimes.
Sometimes, it should even be go beyond texts alone and try calling them atimes. You could literally be texting someone asking how she is and she replies saying she's fine amidst tears, but itll definitely not be the same via calls. You'll hear their voice, listen to how they speak and if anything is wrong you can easily sense it.
A friend once crossed my mind after a long while, I decided to place a call across but got no response. I was told some hours later he was involved in an ghastly motor accident, that actually happened at the same hour I was calling. You see how strong the mind can be? So do well to look out for your friends at all times, you never know what they are going through at that moment and you may actually be their saviour to come through for them.
Happy new month April guysđź’•
