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Nobody’s perfect. The problem is that before marriage, we hardly search thoroughly and carefully about out complexities. Whenever we get into any formal relationship which tends to reveal our imperfection, we blame our partners and call it a day. Our friends dont do us rge favour of enlightening us. Perhaps the advantage of being on my own is the sincere impression that i m a very easy going person and can be quite easy to be lived with.
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Normally, we make an attempt trying to understand our partners, We visit their family and relations, we hang out with their friends, We look at their photos. Then we feel we 've done out preparatory work, sweetie we haven’t. The word "Marriage" is a significant risk taken by two persons who don't really know who the other person is or who they might be binding themselves to a future they dont know what it might bring.
Single Ladies and Gentlemen... dont marry for the wrong reasons. We marry the wrong people because we don’t associate being loved with feeling happy. Most times we make this misrake because we are lonely, believe me that state is so unbearable, so even if things starts to fall apart, we risk loving no longer being single rather more than we love our partner.
The good news is that it doesn’t matter if we have find ourselves in this situation of marrying the wrong person.
The good news is that it doesn’t matter if we find we have married the wrong person.
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We mustn’t abandon him or her in search of a perfect man or woman, he/she don't exist,The person who is best suited to us is not the person who shares our set of preference, but the person who can confer the differences in taste thoughtfully.
Consider what the needs of your partner is. Some of which are clear such as a need for space, not because she/he doesnt want to be anywere close to you, but for reasons best known to her. Some of his/her needs might not be said or spoken, and you’ll need to figure those out for yourself. Perhaps she has a need for respect. Give it to her, she has a need to be treasured and valued, Give it to her.
Thanks for reading and don't forget to Resteem have a good day. MIMI
