"The anxiety of facing life without a current partner, makes me continue a relationship that is already dead"
Psychologist Roxana Perez.
Such is the case, when you are not in your plans, your partner becomes egocentric and you become a hindrance, where you are not taken into account at all, by accepting it in this way you become a hindrance, you will be an obstacle to your projects , it is when without thinking it, but finally accepting it, you become an unserviceable being.
A long time ago a very close and appreciated person, I confirm that a lie repeated so many times becomes true, to the time I ended up accepting that I was very right. As they were his words I experienced very much in spite of my means and my strategies to maintain the relationship, I ended up noticing how those words influenced and without wanting to come to think that only I was guilty of the disagreements in my relationship. It was such a point that I changed my way of being to please the purposes of someone who only made himself happy.
Let me model myself to a life to which I did not belong and without wanting to accept who I did not want to be, I did it. Definitely my life was filled with nostalgia, remembering who I was, what I was, what I had prepared for, my life became a chaos, only for the wonderful intention of belonging to a world, in which I had nothing do, to the one that did not belong.
I believe in the communication of couple, listen many times, that the problems of couple were arranged under the sheets, well they say in my country. Try by all means to put this into practice, surprise for me was that my conversations were always full of stupid things. For my way of thinking I have always known that people who talk stupid things are stupid, those who talk idiocies are idiots, they were insults like those who do not want the thing, but in the end that was it.
There was no topic of conversation, there were no positive or negative reasons, I thought the best way was not to encourage any conversation, just to listen, their things, their anecdotes that were important, what I felt or not, no It was relevant, it just did not matter, I just heard "Be happy" and always ask me how? How could you be happy like that?
It is said that in the couple's relationship, love and respect should prevail, if necessary, you can not throw flowers to someone who sends you only lemons. When in a relationship, the way you refer to yourself, is degrading, they see you ugly, they never praise you, they treat you with violence, ill-treatment, emotional, with passive attitudes but at the same time aggressive, they criticize you, they judge you, they e they point out, they underestimate your actions, they lower you in front of others, they make you feel like a fret over the kitchen, this is not love or respect, unfortunately there are couples who assume that it is a different way of living together.
Definitely are relationships that do not lead to anything right, these are some of the signs by which you must accept that a relationship has to come to an end, I will always think that love, respect, value the being that is by your side, Consideration, are some of the values that should prevail in a relationship, when a relationship lacks these values simply does not work, it is better to make a decision on time and not wait until it is too late.
