Marriage is a legal formal wedlock of two different people from separate background to become one. In my country marriage is not only a legal means of union but also a compulsory cultural acceptable traditional union. The Concept marriage is performed worldwide. Several Countries have different cultural styles to perform union of husband and wife`s. Marriage consist of a husband and a wife who has vowed to unite together forever.
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Marriage has a vital role to play in everyone`s life. Some of this roles involves
To spend Quality Time together; The concept marriage creates personal space time for both husband and wife to celebrate wedding anniversaries, celebrates birthdays and having Fun together.
Physical touching; A married couples will have personal time to share their physical desires and pleasures without any hindrance or discomfort
To Build The children together; Both partners have the opportunity to train their children to be better and useful to the society.
To share personal problems and opinions together; Marriage helps both the husband and wife to share personal problems by creating alternative solutions to the problem at hand.
The Concept Marriage, is it Necessary for a long-standing Forevermore. All my categories and understanding listed above, i believe they are majorly a phenomena that both a man and woman can do without sharing a legal jurisdiction or cultural covenant of forevermore.
I believe marriage is built on love and mutual feelings that both parties have to share to be together. If we look further most marriage end up in divorce because of several personal desires and misunderstanding. I don`t believe that a man and woman must share a bond of cultural and legal jurisdiction to be together. I believe the origin of marriage was for unity and for perfect living in the society.
The word Marriage have really caused a lot of pain to people and children. I believe with my little understanding and knowledge that to be together you don`t have to be married all you just need is a family introduction and you good to go. Having a Court marriage can cause further harms. We all know feelings grows and also decrease same also as behaviors and affections. It can be unfair to a partner when court marriage problems or covenant problems arises.
Some of this reason why i Believe having a court or cultural covenant marriage is not important are;
To Avoid Divorce Trauma; This has really caused a lot of damage the lives of so many homes. Most broken men on the street is mostly as a result of broken home either from his parent or from his personal marriage. Mostly the law favors the woman more than the men because of the kids. And this concept affects the children mostly
For Freedom; I believe both parties have to be free from court issues or external complication. Before you have a relationship you must understand each other very well for a peaceful lifestyle
Marriage is not needed because both the guy nd lady can do whatever they want to do without any obstacles holding them. This is a free world.
All done within marriage domain can still be done outside marriage. This is one of the major reason why am against marriage concept.
Marriage is like a bondage; whereby the wife can have another man and the woman cant have another man. This is a Free World we should not be limited. Although not all men and woman have this characteristics.
Although i am not against anyone marrying but i believe with this little experience and understanding of mine marriage is meant to be freedom.
LOVE is thee key to Forevermore key unto it and you will have a lasting long healthy Togetherness.
Thank You for reading my Post
Yours sencerley
MIKECHRIST
