Have you ever wondered when you’ll get married? When will be the time that you will finally say ‘yes’ to your partner with your teary eyes?
Marriage is not about just saying yes and I do. It’s a lifetime commitment to a person whom you feel incomplete when he or she is not around. It’s about being selfish and prioritizing your partner in any situation. It’s about proving how much you love the person. About giving the skin of your fried chicken to your woman cause you want to see her enjoying her meal, because you know that she looks like a kid who was given a lollipop and the curve of her smile touches the bottom of her ears. It’s about taking good care of your partner even though you sometimes forgot to take care of yourself.
Marriage is the next step of your journey especially for women. That finally, through thick and thin, through all fights, a couple ended up being as one. But it’s not something that we need to rush.
Do not marry because you’re young nor you’re old.
Do not marry because you need to settle your bills and your partner is the solution because he/she is rich.
Do not marry because your parents told you or even your friends.
Do not marry for your visa.
Do not marry because you want child.
Do not marry because you want a travel buddy.
Do not marry because that’s what your religion says.
Do not marry because your relationship is too long and you want to move to the next level.
Marry because you’re ready. Marry because both of you decides to be one. Marry because you want to spend your life with your partner. Marry because you feel it right.
It’s not about the money, it’s about a promise that you will both keep till your last breathe.
Last thing, your wedding will serve as the reunion of your family, your family in law and your friends. So no need to rush, two person will become one in the right time. :)