Self esteem is the way you carry and believe in yourself. Self esteem makes man and destroy man depending on the way you want it. Never have little believe in yourself you never know that addition of little courage sometime changes things positively and makes it permanent. For example a man that loves a woman and did not have the courage to air out your mind and keep hurting yourself inward and you later hear from your pastor or imam that this particular girl will be behind your success, without her you can not succed and now she is married to another man what are you going to do about it, only if you have just gathered a little courage then. Please friends never be little your self or abilities