You know what we did? We decided to keep the monday evening for us guys. Playing D&D at my place is something we are thrilled about each week. Now being more than 40 there are weeks we cannot afford it but in general 3 out 4 per month we do it. It's not the 6 hours we used to, but still 3 to 4. And it is a way to be together and we really laugh hard.