I hope to at least provide a direct response to anyone who may misinterpret what I'm about to write. This is not a case of me favouring one gender over another. I ran into a few of my male friends who may be going through a difficult period right now. Men rarely discuss their problems openly, so if they do, the issue must be serious. I wasn't sure how to respond after reading their whatsapp status, which claimed that women were their main problem.
Even one of my male friends merely share a motivational video with themselves in order to feel less alone and to express their concerns. The whole reason I'm complaining here is because I wish I could communicate with them, but I don't want them to misinterpret what I'm saying. I've reached the point where I can no longer risk hurting people in order to get a good night's sleep.
They ask themselves whether they didn't have it worse than women. Women can talk to their friends. Less depression affects women than men and the list continues forever. I do wish they can just rant it out here. It's okay to approach us or any female friends who can help you out; I know men are meant to be tough. But just put aside your EGO for once.
They should be aware that there are differences between the sexes in mental disease. I guess women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxiety or depression just like me. [Happy Anniversary To My Depression] while men are more likely to engage in substance misuse or antisocial behaviour.
Therefore, keep in mind that you may claim that you need to find lot of money, gain a good job, trying to reach you goal or work hard like a donkey, or whatever. But a woman also does so many complaint to make but more particular as a "Single Mother". If you don't have children, you're lucky. At least you won't have another issue to whine about.
If you were raised by a single mother, you may ask her instead. You might be surprised if she stated she wanted to end her life but had to stay alive for the sake of the children. Then you know how she have to handle all the suffering. Try calculating her and your ages and counting the difference. How long has she been in pain in comparison to you? So,you feel the most depress?
Do open you eyes and talked out. Don't just sit down and share silly quotes or inspiring videos that don't speak to you. If you truly are suffering as you claim, why you still indicated that it's the fault of others? Just keep pointing your finger at them. Perhaps that was the best skills you've ever had. Go and keep pointing fingers!
Just don't used the gender issue as a way for you to escape the situations. Men are less likely than women to experience mental health. We might react more emotionally and have greater emotional exhaustion because they have completely different hormonal systems than men. We have to take on a variety of responsibilities on a daily basis, they are exposed to more stress-related elements.
Statistically, in most of the world, men commit suicide at a rate that is far higher than women do across all age categories. According to an article I read, nearly two-thirds of suicides worldwide—or 1.5% of all deaths—are committed by men. Men may not be depressing enough but they are more likely to commit suicide. Don't think too much about how your luck turned out, then. Why is your life so miserable? Why she lied to you?, Why is she changing?
Bla..bla..bla.. Enough of worrying such useless matter. Put yourself first before others.
I am aware that some women can be such a bad bitches. I didn't claim to be a good woman, but when I'm with my man, I really give it all I've got. I am aware that nobody can learn to be a superb and reliable person in a year or two; learning to give and take,understanding and responsible may takes a lifetime. Giving opportunities, however, may have a shelf life once trust has been betrayed. Regarding my friend, who is complaining about his wife, you initially chose her; what is the issue?
You stated that you were better than her. Who is comparing? Is your marriage up for judgement? Was there a contest? Because they are sexist and stereotype people based on their gender, some men believe they are superior to women for the same reason that some women believe they are superior to men. "NOBODY IS PERFECT!", strive to understand them so they may accept you for who you are.
Women are practical and vurnerable, and men must defend and provide for them even at the risk of their life.
The difference between traditionalists and progressives is that traditionalists believe that as a men, they must protect and provide for the women in exchange for sex and children. While progressives believe that men should be forced to do so collectively through the state in exchange for nothing in order to avoid being accused of sexism.
However, I shall state the privilege that a man should and could have. Men, in my opinion, have it better than women. Yes, generally speaking! It is easier for guys to achieve success. Men also have more opportunities to fail. Men are generally safer than women because they are less likely to be subjected to sexual violence. Although they are more likely to be victims of rape, they are less likely to be victims of rape culture.
They are not as frequently judged for being drunk, and they are certainly not as frequently judged for having sex. Men advance more quickly than women. Men can accomplish things on their own and no one will bother them.
Men can do things on their own and no one will notice. When men care for their children, they are regarded as wonderful and remarkable, yet when women do it, it goes utterly ignored. When men select dangerous jobs, they are not questioned. It is also true that these advantages have drawbacks. However, all of the advantages exceed the disadvantages.
But that was how people expressed their thoughts generally before 2020. We should all have diverse perspectives now for a better life and future. In the year 2023, we will face more pressing difficulties. So, stop worrying about things that is not permanently matter the most. I am speaking from my experience, I do have two daughters and two sons of my own. I'll deal with them all fairly. If something is wrong, I'll give them a hard time about it. I must admit that these gender stereotypes are incredibly outdated.
So, women out there, I don't care if you're a granny, a mother, a sister,a fiancee, a girlfriend or a wife, try to understand his side too. The actual issue is that men are taught not to complain, and if they do, no one is interested. They might be interested to listen if they have something in return. Treat your man as how you wanted to be treated. But if he given you a red flag about the relationship, you only have two choices, either to stay with him or leave. Your decision is for you to make.
A man only concerns that aren't scornfully ignored are those that are consistent with the continued impression: that men are born into privilege and suffer only because they strive to live up to outmoded as macho stereotypes. Little that the women know, that some men are in depression, violent crime, job loss, hunger, low levels of education, workplace injuries, poor health, and other issues are primarily impact men to become who they are.
To put it simply, both men and women homosapiens have 46 chromosomes. Every human being, men or women is born with two arms, two legs, one brain, two eyes, a mouth, a nose, kidneys, and the list could go on.
Even if our reproductive systems and certain of our neurological pathways differ, these variations only exist because they maintain social balance. Each gender performs a particular profession and if possible, both wanted to treat equally the same. There is no competition.
Treat every human as human and put aside their gender. But once you tried to play the gender game with me, I am well prepared to give you an earful advice. Above all the ranting, I must say Men & Women,ROCK! 🤟
Be HUMAN! Or else I can treat you as an animal. Your choice!
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