Looks like you watch only russian channels like "russia 24" that brainwash people including yours? Break away from licking putin's ass, and see in internet what his captured soldiers say. There are a lot of proofs that you are asking for, where, for example, soldiers admit that they were ordered to bomb sleeping quarters of cities and kill civilians. For example look there: https://t.me/gruz_200_rus. Something else is needed?