I'm not far behind her. I can still transfer from my lift chair to my mobility scooter, but can't stand. I have a hydrolic toilet seat lift, and a hydrolic lift that my daughter uses to get me up off the floor when I fall.
I'm beginning to notice changes in vision. MS sucks.
You have your hands full. I'm sorry
Like me, this is not the way either of you expected to spend your retirement years.