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When you are young you are full of optimism because everything is still possible.
The dream of a thrilling career, wealth and freedom, a loving spouse, loving children, meaningful friendship and then as you get older the world gets divided into three categories.
Those who got what they wanted, those who accepted where they are and those who became with transfer and bitter and any relationship that goes concurrently with even the smallest seed of envy or jealousy is doomed to fail.
That is why the secret of long lasting bond is
to connect with people who are focused on building the life they want. They don't have time for. They keep growing as people and they are generally happy for you when you are doing well in your life.