This life is full of wonder's and the little we are talking about is the little we are opportune to know, most times the little we know might not be enough and we will wish and try sometimes to get to know more. There are some mistakes that when people do them, it may either be intentionally or unintentionally, which ever way I see mistakes as mistake. It doesn't matter on what condition it occurred. We all as human being, have the greatest ability to prevent any mistake, so it only depends on the individual and the mistake that is prone to occur at that moment, some mistakes can be to individual or follow human being, some can be to process. But then, some mistakes or wrongs can be forgiven or given a second chance.
The question, do I give a second chance, Yes! I do give a second chance but is it all time No!. This is called giving a second chance comes with understand and willing. And most time people do things to you purposely and knowingly, just to see the worst part of you, or for a selfish reasons that may be best known to them. It this case are they purpose to be given a second chance, for me it depends. During my early time on Hive, one of my mentor intentionally punish me, and I felt so much bad about it, I tried to explain myself to him, he always have something to tell me to put the whole blames on me, so after a while he came me to remind me of that incident and that he did it because of some reason which he told me about it and at that time I have him a second chance in me, because the frustration lead me to start this hatred spirit gradually but after that day I felt relieve and happy with him and he still remain my mentor and a Leader to me.
But in situation people hurt me intentionally and never show remorse about it, I may forgive you as a human being and let it go, but then that second chance it what I can't give to you, there are some situation and cases I don't give people chance to correct their mistake rather I give you space and detach me self from you. Because I noticed that when people wrong you intentionally and you give them a second chance if time is not well taken the second chance will be misused and you will be wrong the second time by the second chance you gave. So for me in that situation I don't give that chance alot all, especially when it happened at first contact with a person. This life is program in a way that what ever that happens before is banned to occur Again if not way prevent or put to a stop. Regarding to my perception over second chance, it is good and accepted to give a second chance when you feel it is right to do.
This is my response on hive Ghana weekly prompt
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