Life is about what we decide to do or what will the site to become not necessarily where we are coming from. The idea of an individual being good or bad coming from family or the home which is the person came up from is something we should pay attention to. Many persons who are of good behaviors but yet come from a terrible home. The question will always ask is why is this person exception. Thinking that because somebody is not coming from a discipline home a person is not discipline or cannot be of could behavior is wrong, because I believe that for whatever I want to become is what I will be not because of the family I'm coming from. There is this popular say that it is not your fault to be born into a poor family but it becomes of fault if you cannot make your way out of the poverty.
You do happen everyday by day where we see people with different talent and different character behaviors. You will always ask which family are you from you like to know the kind of family person come from where is because of the character the person displays. I have this friend of mine who is From a terrible home but his behavior and character is quite different from his other siblings and his family entirely. When I first met him I was very surprised to see him to be bloody friend from his siblings then when I ask him about why he's behaviors are different, he told me that we choose to become what we want to become not because of what others say or what others are, that his family is toxic, it does not necessarily mean he will be toxic as a human being. He made me believe that for anything we want to become or anything we want to be is in our ability to do that. He changed his location he don't visit home often just to stay away from them. He's doing well and I can comfortably say that you might not believe he is one of those family.
For us to say that there is a certain way to make sure your children or your child is a good one And of a good behavior to the family and society, then there should be a way that children who are of bad characters can be changed. But because of life is all about choice you cannot predict what will come but we need to do our own part. I say parents there is no child who is born on earth just to be of a bad child. Parents need to give their children a good upbringing. Always ensure you do your part as a parent by guiding your children, preventing them from making mistakes in life, serving as a counselor by helping them to be able to make their own decision. No matter what a child that will be useful to be useful and a child that will not be will not be but we need to do our own part as parents. No parents will like to see his or her child not being fruitful on Earth.
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