It sounds like you've been through a bit of a journey with your weight, Losing 40 lbs and then slowly gaining it back can be tough, but it's great that you're happy with where you are now.

I totally get what you're saying about having a physique that's functional and allows you to move freely. Bruce Lee is definitely an iconic figure raytt.

As for your fall at the bank, I'm glad you're okay HAHAHA and it's good that you're taking steps to be more mindful of your surroundings. Having some extra cushioning can definitely help soften the blow, but it's also great that you're thinking about building up your strength and balance to prevent future falls.

I think it's awesome that you're having a conversation with your aunt about this. It's great that she's looking out for you, but it's also important to take calculated risks and be independent.