each man will have their own preference i suppose. but definitely it will be impossible to be in a relationship with a woman who has a shit personality, or makes comments or replies that make you want to bang your head against a wall. Also patience is required for both sides as in a long term relationship you are teaching each other to become more bearable for each other. its also not helpful if she has annoying habits that she cant give up. like a smoker male might say he would want a smoker girl while a nonsmoker might say he would want a nonsmoker girl, so that the smoking habit does not conflict with the 2. similarly some might get annoyed of her smartphone habits.

about physical attributes: certain physical attributes a man might like to see due to our primate ancestors, that become attractive because nature is tricking us to care for attributes that ensure the survival of a baby infant, such as breasts or hips.