thats then hypocritical to expect other countries to be a democracy and under this pretense invade them?

check out this clip rules for rulers:

democracy is a system where the means to stay in power just happen to align with the interest of the people. its the reason why dictatorships are often more ruthless. there are only a few dictatorships that i approve of as they have lifted many people out of poverty due to economic stability. but you dont have that economic stability benifit of a dictator either as you have presidential terms. as a result the rich get richer and the poor have no free access to health care and education and acutlaly have to pay a fortune to get such. only rich can afford to get rich. people are hence stuck in the poverty cycle (actual economic term).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cycle_of_poverty