After you would have lived life a while you will soon discover that nothing happens for nothing. There are things you once complained and cried about that you will soon thank God for, and even apologize for, due to way you handled them. We have accused God and complained of partiality on his part, simply because we could not see beyond our noses.
Imagine what was going through the mind of Joseph as they bundled him like a slave into Egypt, sold by his own blood brothers. He must have been in deep confusion, he must have womderd what he did wrong, he must have asked the Lord all kinds of questions. Questions like "Lord is this your will for me, is this how you want to reward me for living an upright life, why am I the one suffering and not my brothers who are bad"? It just didn't make sense.
But I have good news for you today. Everything that did not make sense previously will begin to make sense in no time in Jesus Name. It was so amazing when Joseph began to thank God for all his brothers did to him. He was the one that was now encouraging them not to feel bad for their actions of wickedness. He said "you meant it for evil, but God meant it for good". Things can happen to us all they want, but what God means for it is what is important. God had faithfully said that all things work for good to those who love Him. This shall be our testimony in no distant time.