Accusing men attracted to fully developed women of paedophilia, cheapens the term. It's like 'racist' or 'fascist'. Overuse it to push an agenda and it loses its accusatory impact.

Men do have a superhero thing. The damsel in distress is a cliche for a reason. That's largely because we operate on gratitude and assume women do too.

If I take a woman from a palace back to my house, she's going to be unimpressed, hard to please and difficult to live with.
If I take a woman from a musty cellar, back to my house, she'll dance around the living room, marvel at the pantry full of food and love me forever.