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Skin exposed brain
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Oberlin University Professor Yamaguchi
What is important for the growth of children
After accomplishing something
I hugged tightly as "I was able to do it well"
I will hug a crowd when crying
Touching the skin
Skin shipping is very important.
Skin ship is
Accept the whole partner's existence
"You can stay here"
"You are an important person"
Such as the existence of the opponent itself
Tell them that you are admitting everything
Because it is a message.
In this way you get a skin ship
My mind is healed
We promote an intimate relationship with the partner.
So why to skinship
Is there such a big effect?
I would like to think from two perspectives.
First of all
There is the word "skin exposed to the brain".
This is because the skin and the brain are close
It means being in a relationship.
Skin is self and society
Because it is the boundary which is in direct contact
Sensation that occurs at the boundary
That is,
Interpersonal relationship will be strongly reflected. In the case of
For example
Even though the physical stimulus is the same
I feel good when I touch someone I like
It makes you horrified when you touch a person you dislike.
It is too sensitive and sensitive to interpersonal relationships.
Also tickling is
Consciousness of defense from opponent
It shows that it is working.
Also because skin has close relationship with the brain
For example
"Warming your hands will warm your heart"
"When you touch something you rasped, your heart will also become rough."
I also know that.
Furthermore
Even if I close my eyes
Just shaking hands with people
Whether the other party is "nervous"
Even things like "can you trust"
You can feel it.
Skin-ship involves intimacy and confidence
It is communication.
As a second reason for the effect of skin ship
Made in the brain
The substance "oxytocin"
Research knows that it will be easier to get out.
This oxytocin is
It is also called "Binding hormone"
Deepening relationships of love
Lighter stress
There is a work to stabilize emotions.
Funny thing is that oxytocin
Not only the touched child
It is also secreted to the parent who touches.
Then, the affection for the child got deeper
It has an effect to promote nurturing behavior.
So by having a skin ship with a child
My parents also deepened affection
Stress is healed
It makes me feel relaxed.
For this reason
In the skin ship where the exposed brain and the brain contact
There are many amazing effects.
Next, I will introduce the effect of skin ship.
recently
Not only children
Skin ship to the elderly is also
It began to be reviewed.
For example, by gently touching a patient with dementia
Behavioral and psychological symptoms such as aggressive behavior and wandering
The less effect is recognized.
Its effects also include oxytocin
With a pleasant skin sensation
It is thought that it is because stress decreases.
Even if you become demented
Again as human beings with dignity
By being touched
You can regain the relationship of trust with the other party
To accept care so as smoothly
It is.
At the hospital
Neither the doctor nor the nurse have come to touch the patient.
However
Touching the patient
Heal the patient's anxiety
Lighten pain
It reduces stress and increases immunity.
This is called "treatment".
By touching it well
Reliable relationships and satisfaction with nurses and doctors also increased
To encourage healing of disease
The medical professional himself can become a good medicine.
Also at school
The teacher ceased to touch the students
Children's interactions have also decreased.
Children's play
In the past, jumping horse and hand connecting demon etc
Play that can naturally acquire skin ship
There were a lot
Now such play is
It almost disappeared
Instead, such as video games
The game has become mainstream.
The play of the skin ship is
Actually, it is very good.
I think that it was training for human relations.
Sumo wrestling for example
"The whole body of the opponent said that he would like to win"
There are children such as.
By touching
To the change of feelings and heart of the other person
It becomes easy to notice.
In overseas research
By taking time to get in touch with each other
Violent children become calm
There are no bullying
The sense of unity of the class has strengthened
Effects such as are recognized.
Recently
Cause of truancy and bullying is increasing
The fact that skinship is decreasing
I think that it is not irrelevant.
The abuse which is increasing recently is so.
In many cases parents who abuse
I have problems with skin ship with children.
Farasa not hugging or hugging
I feel nauseous when I touch my child
There is also a parent.
It is when parents themselves are children
I could not even mention that parent enough
It is considered to be one cause.
Still it is not too late.
Parents' hands of abusing
While gripping and rubbing the back
Rapidly resolve my mind
It became possible to touch children
I was able to hug my child again
I have heard that story.
Also in research on adults
People with mental disabilities such as depression and anxiety
Than those who do not
My parents did not touch me much during my childhood
I think.
Moreover, I am not good at touching people.
That is
In early childhood
"My parents did not accept enough."
Low self-affirmation such as
"It was not needed by parents"
It appears in the low self-esteem feeling such as.
The skin sensation touched in such a childhood is
That it is still after adults
Perhaps the skin itself
Maybe you have memory like the brain.
Influence of childhood skinchip
It continues until after adulthood.
In this childhood
Even if the skin ship was small, it is okay.
Skin ship from any time
Because it can regain it from anyone.
If it is after adult
Even in the skin ship with a couple or lover
You can regain shortage in early childhood.
We live in modern times
Rather than relying on the net
More sensitive to skin sensation
It will be necessary.
For example
To feel the transition of the four seasons with your skin
I feel that I am living here now
I will create it.
Going to various places without being bothered
The unique air and atmosphere there
It is important to feel it.
I do not know by only letters and images
Because there is raw air.
Also as we have mentioned
Skin ship is
I solved many of the problem of modern Japanese mind
It will prevent it.
In a Japanese society rapidly declining birthrate and aging population
Also for the elderly to reduce medical expenses
To prevent children's mind problems as well
Just medicine and technology alone
Try to solve with efficiency priority
I think that it is necessary to change posture.
Skin ship,
"Anyone" "Anywhere" "Just"
It is a wonderful tool you can do.
It has been done since ancient times
The splendor of skinship
Why do not you review it?
Oberlin University Professor Yamaguchi