You’re right, just that sometimes, the society will want women to blend in to the standard they create and when it’s not done that way, they’ll feel the person is not doing enough.

I think when it comes to carrying out responsibilities, woman should do what they can and prioritizing themselves as well, they don’t have to struggle to blend in because of what others will say, we should do what we can, have that rest, and achieve that thing we want to achieve and above all, put ourselves first just like you said.