Being in a difficult financial situation can really transform a man's perspective. Shifting family expenses onto your partner or attempting to share bills with them won't necessarily improve the circumstances. However, who you become during challenging times is what truly matters. Avoid reaching a point where your actions could put your family's well-being at risk.
Personally, when I'm struggling financially, I don't believe it's right to evade the financial responsibilities I have towards my family as a man—my children, my wife, my household. It's also not the moment to boast about being capable or financially secure. I understand that as men, we often resist this.
Finding a way to communicate and resolve these problems is preferable to making extreme decisions simply because you believe it is your role as a man to act unilaterally and expect your wife and children to conform.
If financial struggles can transform a loving father into a detached individual and turn a harmonious home into a fractured family, despite the deep love and connections that exist,
it saddens me to witness such occurrences in my community, and I regret to admit that I have experienced this personally, carrying the pain of seeing someone I once regarded as my hero begin to behave in unimaginable ways.
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