Hello dear friends and mothers, my kids are growing up, they have been changing their tastes, a little bit their character, each one with their own personality, it is evident the union between them although they usually argue because the boy is a joker and sometimes he spends what annoys his sister.
Unión y amor entre hermanos.
Since she was little my daughter has always seen her brother as someone she has to protect, I remember when they were babies because they only have an age difference of 1 year and 3 months (currently 11 and 12 years old) she always took care of him and held his hand, obviously we always instilled in her that she was the oldest and should protect him, funny at that time because they were babies but it was marked in her.
Inculcarles valores desde pequeños es importante,educarlos para que mantengan relaciones armónicas es fundamental en especial con la familia,su hermana en este caso es la personita mas cercana aparte de mi ,con ella comparte juegos ,el gusto por los postres,el blogear porque ambos tienen blogs ,la fotografía y mas.
Instilling values from an early age is important, educating them to maintain harmonious relationships is essential especially with the family, his sister in this case is the closest person besides me, with her he shares games, the taste for desserts, blogging because they both have blogs, photography and more.
Cómplices y compañeros de aventuras.
As I told you in another publication I experienced motherhood at 35 and 36 years of age, so there is not much age difference, raising them together has been an advantage for everything, the older one has been a model for the learning of the male in terms of behavior, she is very educated and excellent student, so is he, however each one has developed his own personality and although they share some things they obviously differ in others.
The relationship with our siblings marks us and prepares us to socialize with others, with our siblings we learn to defend ourselves (siblings even teach us to fight with fists and kicks) and expose our points of view (because there will always be arguments for anything) and while we discover all this we strengthen bonds of love and union, it is important that for this to happen parents are there guiding them to promote harmonious relationships.
las diferencias siempre existirán .
Confieso que mis hijos me ocasionan molestias muchas veces por sus discusiones tontas y que tengo que tomar aire y contar hasta 3 para no perder la paciencia con ellos, pareciera que a veces todo lo que les decimos entra por un oído y sale por el otro pero bueno esto es parte de ser mamá mantener el equilibrio en casa.
I confess that my children annoy me many times with their silly arguments and I have to take a breath and count to 3 not to lose patience with them, it seems that sometimes everything we tell them goes in one ear and out the other but well this is part of being a mom to keep the balance at home.
Ni hablar de la competencia entre ellos que observo a veces lo que me hace decirles:Oigan procuren graduarse y casarse el mismo día y en el mismo lugar,comprarse un carro o casa iguales,ver sus expresiones me hace gracia,siempre responden:No mami como se te ocurre y respondo: Bueno,como quieren siempre lo mismo ,me parece justo para mi y río,eso los deja desconcertados y todo vuelve a la calma.
Not to mention the competition between them that I sometimes see, which makes me tell them: "Hey, try to graduate and get married on the same day and in the same place, buy the same car or house, see their expressions makes me laugh, they always answer: "No mommy, how did you think of that and I answer: "Well, since they always want the same thing, it seems fair to me and I laugh, that leaves them puzzled and everything goes back to calm.
Las relaciones armónicas con nuestros hermanos nos marcan de forma positiva.
Adolescence is a difficult stage, a stage where they cease to be obedient children and go through a stage (most) of rebelliousness in many cases, is a stage of changes and learning not only for children but for parents, relationships between siblings especially with little age difference usually will be strengthened, become accomplices in adventures, best friends: the important thing is that we are still there with a watchful eye but respecting this stage of their lives.
All photos are my property and were taken with Samsung Galaxy phone, Margarita Island, Venezuela, I used translator DeepL.com, the image of farewell and separator were elaborated in power point with image of Bitmoji application.
