Demands - Force your spouse to do something based on threats or punishments if he / she refuses to do so.
Conviction Complaints - Try to change the attitudes, beliefs, and behavior of your spouse by trying to force your way of thinking through scolding, criticism, threats, sarcasm, and ridicule.
Wrangling of Wrath - Intentionally hurting your spouse to punish him or "teach" him a lesson through screaming, humiliation and physical abuse.
Dishonesty - Failing to reveal your thoughts, feelings, likes, dislikes, personal history, daily activities, and future plans to your spouse. Hide information or give a false impression.
Infidelity - has been a deep shadow in the midst of the most sublime relationship created by God: Marriage and has increased in recent years bringing pain and break not only in the couple but in the whole family and even in the church.
Irritating Customs - Customs that bother you about your spouse, such as your bad posture, your eating habits, your tone of voice, your style of dress, your cleaning habits, etc.
Independent Behaviors - Behaviors performed without taking into consideration the feelings of your spouse. Plan and carry out activities without taking into account the opinion of your spouse.
As you can see, these habits cause enormous damage to the soul and therefore destroy the love in the relationship. So if you want to reactivate feelings of love, avoid at all costs to practice them, because not only is the relationship of the couple at stake but the unity of the family, each day we must fight so that our family remains united and I know that with the help of God and the Holy Spirit that guides us to all truth can be achieved.
1 Peter 3: 6-7
Conjugal duties
... 6 Thus did Sarah obey Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her daughters, if you do good and are not frightened by any fear. 7 And you, husbands, equally, live in a sympathetic manner with your wives, as with a more fragile vessel, since you are a woman, giving her honor as a co-heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers are not hindered.
If you are going through a painful experience because of the factors mentioned above, look for help and counseling in men and women trained in the word of God. For example, the case of infidelity is a torn factor against the soul and the family,
usually people who commit infidelity lack a well-centered identity and a weak and weak spirituality, we can see the case of Joseph with the wife of potiphar in the book of Genesis; José thought I will not sacrifice my sexuality, because I know who I am before God, how I will do this to God and how I can do this to my master, I know who I am within the plan of GOD, he was clear who was in front of God and he was not willing to lose his identity and his spirituality for a moment of sexuality.
Infidelity is like a flame of fire. But let me tell you that in spite of the ruins, in spite of the ashes, God will be able to resurface even from the ashes a solid marriage, as long as the couples are disposed in their hearts to find the freedom and healing of their marriage.
Will there be something impossible for God?
"I am the Lord, the God of all flesh, will there be anything impossible for Me?" Jeremiah 32:27
God was the first to be betrayed by man and gives us hope to rebuild the marriage from the ashes and transform it into a solid marriage.